The Law of Attraction
We are, in general, all attracted, either sexually, physically or even personally to another person or other persons. We do not know how, but there is something that triggers our desire when we see or meet a certain type of person. Without even realizing that individual, we know that they are "our type" and when we see like an example of our type, we instantly realise the fact and we react to it by producing large amounts of pheromones.
There is a genetic trigger that urges us to find certain types of people that "fit" our taste in a partner. We have been, also by default, programmed to partners of a different genetic makeup so we can create stronger offspring because of a wider variety of body's genes.
Apart from the stereotype celebrities, actors and actresses, models and beautiful people whom we secretly and sometimes quite openly adore and feel attracted to, we all have our type", which includes body sort, body shape, hair colour, eyes and a whole lot of other physical attributes that trigger our desire. Personality will be of course another important factor; do we go to the outgoing and selfconfidence or the warm and friendly, or perhaps do we like the strong, quiet and intelligent type? We are all aware that for most women it is very important that a man can make them laugh. And it is sometimes another thing completely in which heavily influences someone choice: money!
Men subconsciously feel attracted to those women that remind them of the first love of their lives: their mother, and also equally women would have a preference for a man who reminds them in some ways of their father.
Research Has Found that a Mother Influences Her Son's Expectations
She indicates exactly what she is looking for in a partner but she also influences her son on female qualities. So if she is a warm-hearted and friendly person, her son will believe that this is indicative for the female species. Those sons are likely to grow up to become warm and responsive lovers who are willing to take more responsibility in the household.
Equally, a mother with a depressive personality that exchanges friendliness with rounds of coldness and rejection may raise a son who is afraid of commitment and who with regards to finding the right woman, will always be looking at the grass on the other side of the fence.
Daughters are Influenced by the Very First Men Love in Their Lives, Their Fathers
The fathers' character often determines how women relate to the opposite sex. Fathers who are very supportive may raise daughters who are available as well as supportive themselves as their particular fathers have ensured they always feel good about themselves. The opposite is true of ladies whose fathers were distant, chilly and critical. These people do not have such high degree of self confidence and this is reflected in their relationships.
Genetically, men are programmed to prefer ample breast and broad curvy body as this, in general, almost guarantees healthy offspring due to easy childbirth and sufficient nourishment. Women genetically prefer the broad shoulders for protection and the firm muscled bottom for sexual longevity increasing the chance of impregnation.
Do pheromones really work?
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Spite of many years of the media's attempts to subdue the male preference for the curvy woman and the creation of the skinny woman as the ideal physique shape, in the 2 few years, curvy women are back onto the landscape and even inside fashion, the last stronghold of the hollow eyed "bag-o-bones" lady, designers are beginning to make use of more and more full figured women on their catwalks.
Many men, after years of hiding the fact that they preferred the fuller figure and were forced to seek interactions with skinny females, do no longer need to hide the fact that they have a preference for a plus size figure. DatingBBW.co.uk, a long standing dating website in the United Kingdom has noticed the difference as more men join the site and more curvy women uses web dating to find the right partner who loves them for their curves and not in spite of all of them. Having a curvaceous amount has become once more the symbol of what is attractive in a natural healthy woman.
Demarcus is a content marketer at alertexchange.com, a blog about health issues. Last year, Demarcus worked as a post curator for a medical site. When he's not writing health content, Demarcus enjoys hiking and rafting.